motivate-kids-homework
education

Can You Impact Your Child’s Motivation?

“Hi Mom, I’m going to start my homework before I play any Xbox this afternoon.” Ah, the dream statement. Unfortunately, homework time sounds a lot less like this, and a lot more like a war between many parents and students. … Continue reading

Read More


choice theory

Self-Control: The Key to Happiness

I am frequently asked for evidence that internal control psychology/choice theory is effective. It’s a fair question. After all, if what I espouse doesn’t help us get to a better place, why would anyone want to learn about it and … Continue reading

Read More


choice theory

External Motivation – The Quick Fix that Doesn’t Last

Alfie Kohn reviews some compelling research in a recent article, “Studies Support Rewards, Homework, and Traditional Teaching. Or Do They?” Kohn looks at three practices traditionally aligned with the carrot and stick approach to education: external rewards, homework, and direct … Continue reading

Read More


choice theory

External Rewards: Some Hidden Costs

Providing an external reward for learning is so pervasive that most of us never even consider the potential downside. In an earlier post – “Internal Motivation: Present from Birth” –  I suggested that external rewards can actually interfere with learning. … Continue reading

Read More



Featured Video