Review Category : Kids

The Disney Door: How to Give Your Child a Spark of Inspiration

My high school history teacher was convinced that Disney was the cause of human ignorance. Every day that I strolled into class wearing a Mickey Mouse t-shirt (quite often) he’d wince and go on a tirade about how historically inaccurate Disney movies are. I’d often respond that the purpose of Disney movies was not to educate but to entertain and provide important moral lessons that inspire children to chase their dreams and be generally nice people. He remained unimpressed with the argument. Then, one day, he brought up Pocahontas.

“Sorry to burst your bubble,” he said, “But there was no romance between John Smith and Pocahontas–”

“—I know.” I said. “She was only thirteen and she intervened in his execution because she didn’t like the violence between her people and the white settlers. She actually married a guy named John Rolfe in England and was an important diplomatic representative for Native Americans.”

He commented that, even if I watched Disney movies, he was glad to see I paid attention in history class. I laughed. I was a teenager, of course I didn’t pay attention in history class! I’m sure I learned about Pocahontas at some point in my schooling, but that’s not why I remembered her. I remembered her because when I was six years old I was obsessed with Disney’s newest movie, Pocahontas. I loved it: the music, the mischievous raccoon, the talking willow tree! So when I found a children’s book at Borders (rest in peace) entitled Pocahontas, I had to have it. However, this was not Disney’s version of the Pocahontas story; it was the factual historical account. That didn’t stop me from reading it multiple times and absorbing every word.

So, yes, I know the real story of Pocahontas because I happened to pick up the historical picture book instead of Disney’s Little Golden Book rehash of the movie. That was sort of a happy accident. But I wouldn’t have even heard of Pocahontas if not for Disney, and I certainly wouldn’t have picked up that book. Disney opened the door for me.

A Parent’s Push

This is where the parents come in. I was lucky to stumble upon this book, but in general kids won’t seek out the historical or factual information for themselves. Parents, however, can provide the gentle nudge for their children to learn more about the historical or literary roots of their favorite movie (although you probably shouldn’t phrase it like that to them). Have a daughter who is obsessed with Mulan? Talk about ancient Chinese culture and explain to your child who the Huns really were. Your son shows an interest in Hercules? Try reading him some mythology! Maybe your kids really liked Treasure Planet (for some reason) and you can introduce them to the wonderful world of Robert Louis Stevenson.

Beyond historical inaccuracies, Disney walks some other tetchy lines. Some of their older movies have elements of racism (for example the Indians in Peter Pan and the Siamese Cats in Lady and the Tramp) and the princesses are, at times, debatable as role models. This could be another argument to censor Disney, of course. But kids will always find a way to watch what they want. I feel this is another way to start a discussion with your child about challenges they may have to face in the future in regards to issues such as self image and tolerance.

In any case, my teacher, unfortunately, didn’t concede the point. He said I was a different case, someone who was naturally interested in history and literature. But I give partial credit for that to Disney, who, at a very young age, taught me about the power of a really well told story. So talk to your kids about the movies and television shows they like! You never know what kind of doors it could open.

Author
Leah Holstein is the proprietor of the brilliant http://themagicalworldof.com/, a blog for Disney Fanatics, because you are never too old for Disney.

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Mother and Daughter Publishing Duo, Sheryl and Carrie Berk

One of the most important things any parent can do, is show their child that learning is fun by example. Writer Sheryl Berk wanted to encourage her daughter Carrie’s creativity and so the two turned Carrie’s love of cupcakes and writing into a book series, “The Cupcake Club.” The series, which began being published in April 2012 by Sourcebooks Jabberwocky, is up to three books now and is truly a labor of love between mother and daughter. Sheryl talked to Funderstanding about the project and what it was like to collaborate with her young daughter.

Can you tell us a little about the genesis of the project? How did you and Carrie decide to turn a girl’s love of cupcakes into a book?
Carrie actually came up with the idea. She was frustrated that there wasn’t a cupcake series out there for elementary and middle schoolers, So she wrote a story about two friends who form a cupcake club. I thought it was great—and timely given “Ace of Cakes” and “Cake Boss” and all the other baking shows on TV. So I showed it to my agent, Frank Weimann at The Literary Group. He loved it and pitched it to publishers. We had a book deal very quickly. Carrie had a very good hunch.

Which came first—the baking or the book? And how did that transition work?
Carrie has always loved cupcakes. We bought them more than baked them at first; her fave is Red Velvet. One of my close friends—Carrie calls her “Aunt Kathy”—asked her one day, “Why don’t you write a cupcake blog and review all the cupcakes you taste?”
Carrie loved this idea.

It started off as a newsletter: “Carrie’s Cupcake Critique.” Soon, all her friends and family wanted copies, as well as her teachers in school. To be more eco-friendly, we went green and decided to do a blog, Carrie’s Cupcake Critique. It now has over 11,000 views and fans that include the Cake Boss [Buddy Valastro] and the stars of “DC Cupcakes!”

Who’s the better baker?
I’m good with inventing recipes, but Carrie has some serious piping skills when it comes to decorating.

Has Carrie always enjoyed reading and writing? How did she begin?
Yes, she has always loved to write, everything from realistic fiction to non-fiction essays. I’m a writer, so I guess it’s in her genes. I was really impressed with her vivid storytelling; it comes from the heart and her real experiences. Her teachers were wowed as well.

Did you do anything special to encourage this love of the written word? Do you have any tips for other parents?
I encouraged Carrie to keep a diary from the time she was in kindergarten and could put together a sentence. Then I encouraged her to write stories based on her favorite book characters. She was forever writing Rainbow Magic Fairy Tales and the further adventures of Judy Moody. I also suggested she write letters to her favorite authors. When she got notes of encouragement back from Megan McDonald and Lauren Baratz-Logstead, she was over the moon!

How did you two collaborate on the book?
We started by coming up with the characters—who they were, what made them special or different. I think there’s a little bit of Carrie in each one of them. She came up with all of their names and personalities—particularly the four girls, Kylie, Jenna, Lexi and Sadie. Then we talked about the story arc: What was the heroine’s biggest problem and how would she overcome it? Carrie loved the idea of her battling a bully, and dealing with the repercussions of getting her sweet revenge.

She also gave the characters genuine voices and would often correct me: “A kid wouldn’t talk like that!” And she was right. She was a tough editor! I would write a chapter and show it to her, and she learned to track changes and add her comments in the margins. Sometimes she was pretty brutal with her opinions, but I would never challenge her on them. This book series comes from her imagination and it should be true to her age group. In this case, she knows best.

The bullying/outcast angle is a very timely and important one—can you give us any insights on how you and Carrie decided to make that part of the book?
Kids are very aware of bullying. It may not be physical; sometimes it’s just one kid saying something cruel. Carrie has seen her friends get hurt by mean words and actions, and she’s a peer mediator in her school, so she tries to help kids work out any disagreements. This was a topic she really wanted to deal with in our first book. She thought it would speak to a lot of kids.

Obviously Carrie is a creative kid—how did you encourage this creativity?
I believe you should nurture your child’s passion—whatever it may be. Carrie is also a serious ballerina as well as a cupcake critic. My husband and I support her in both her endeavors—and sometimes that means running to ballet class three times a week or driving to some distant cupcake store so she can try a new cupcake. I always tell her that the most successful people I know are very passionate about what they do.

What was the reaction at school? Were the other kids supportive?
Her classmates are so excited for her and have all pre-ordered copies of the book. She’s “hidden” a lot of her pals’ first and last names in the book—for example, her BFF’s last name is Ludwig and Mr. Ludwig is the name of the gourmet shop owner who gives The Cupcake Club its first order. Her teachers and principal are thrilled and are currently reading a review copy. We did a focus group back in the Fall and read a chapter to her fourth grade class. They loved it and helped us even decide on the final cover for the book. It’s exciting for kids to see that someone their age can do this. I think she’s inspiring a lot of kids in her class to pick up a pen and write.

Many children write “books” that never even come close to being published—what made you decide to take this to the next level and get it published?
I knew how much Carrie wants to grow up and be a writer—she’s said so since first grade. And I felt like this idea was smart and marketable, despite the fact that she was just eight years old at the time. I knew it would be a lot of work for her on top of all her homework and ballet classes, but she wanted to do it. So we agreed to be a team. I’ve collaborated with a lot of celebs on books, but Carrie is by far my best writing partner. She wants to be a part of the entire process from start to finish. We just worked on a Romeo and Juliet-inspired plot for book two and went to see the ballet at Lincoln Center together. The whole time, she was taking notes!

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9th Annual Young Child Expo & Conference, April 18-20

Our friends at LosNinos.com are hosting their 9th Annual Young Child Expo & Conference, April 18-20. It will be held at New York’s Hotel Pennsylvania (across from Penn Station).

There will be over 40 conference sessions and full-day workshops. It is geared to professionals who work with young children and it covers  topics in early childhood development for children with and without special needs. For more information go to www.youngchildexpo.com or call Conference Coordinator Nancy Evangelista at 212.787.9700 x333.

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Choice Theory

choice theory

What is Choice Theory? Developed by psychiatrist William Glasser, Choice Theory states we are motivated by a never-ending quest to satisfy the following 5 basic needs woven into our genes: to love and belong, to be powerful, to be free, to have fun and to survive.

Behavior is Chosen

Choice theory contends that we are internally motivated, not externally motivated by rewards and punishment.

Originally called “control theory,” Glasser switched to “choice theory” in 1996 to emphasize that virtually all behavior is chosen .

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Learning Styles

Definition

This approach to learning emphasizes the fact that individuals perceive and process information in very different ways. The learning styles theory implies that how much individuals learn has more to do with whether the educational experience is geared toward their particular style of learning than whether or not they are “smart.” In fact, educators should not ask, “Is this student smart?” but rather “How is this student smart?”

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Multiculturalism

Definition

Multiculturalism is based on the belief that varying cultural dynamics are the fourth force–along with the psychodynamic, behavioral, and humanistic forces–explaining human behavior. Since the ability to recognize our own and others’ cultural lenses is essential to all learning, it must be taught, along with communication and thinking skills, as prerequisites to learning.

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Whole Brained Teaching

Definition

Whole-brain teaching is an instructional approach derived from neurolinguistic descriptions of the functions of the brain’s left and right hemispheres.

Basic Element

Neurolinguistic findings about the brain’s language functions show that in the integrated brain, the functions of one hemisphere are immediately available to the other, producing a more balanced use of language. Whole-brain teaching emphasizes active learning, in which the learner makes connections that tap both hemispheres.

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Self-Efficacy

self efficacy

Albert Bandura may be most well known for his work on social cognitive theory and observational learning.  But it’s important for educators and parents to know about a buried treasure at the heart of social cognitive theory – self-efficacy beliefs.  Self-efficacy is what helps nurture effort, perseverance, resilience, serenity, and optimism in the face of adversity.

Bandura defines self-efficacy as “the belief in one’s capabilities to organize and execute the courses of action required to manage prospective situations.” (Bandura, 1995, p. 2). In simpler terms, it’s best captured in Henry Ford’s famous quote:  “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re usually right.”

Self-Efficacy: Pervasive in All Aspects of Life

People’s self-efficacy beliefs extend to all aspects of their lives – career choice, dating behavior, and emotional regulation. A child’s ideas about what she’s good at influences her choice of studies and ultimately career. If a person doesn’t believe her efforts will result in the outcome she wants, she will have a lot of trouble starting, applying effort, or persevering in any activity – whether it’s studying for an exam, engaging in a sport or asking someone out on a date.

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Observational Learning

Definition

Observational learning, also called social learning theory, occurs when an observer’s behavior changes after viewing the behavior of a model. An observer’s behavior can be affected by the positive or negative consequences–called vicarious reinforcement or vicarious punishment– of a model’s behavior.

Discussion

There are several guiding principles behind observational learning, or social learning theory:

  • The observer will imitate the model’s behavior if the model possesses characteristics– things such as talent, intelligence, power, good looks, or popularity–that the observer finds attractive or desirable.

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Emotional Intelligence

 

Your child is super frustrated about something, but isn’t able to communicate clearly what has gone wrong. You feel your emotions getting the best of you as you also become aggravated trying to help. Instead of getting to the root of the issue, tempers rise. With a younger child, an extreme temper tantrum may erupt or an older child may resort to yelling or even crying. Sometimes our emotions get the best of us, but they are essential to our development and ability to deal with social situations.

Emotional intelligence, also knows as EQ, has been discovered to be an important aspect of how we respond to social situations, such as our child throwing a temper-tantrum. A child

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